There’s a common saying, I wonder if you know it: “If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.” I don’t love it. I understand what it’s trying to inspire—a motto for us …

Sometimes we don’t know what the fuck is happening. If, like me, you’ve ever gone through a hard transition in your life, or are currently, you know that it can be really difficult to know what to do exactly. There …